A letter from Dad…
….hey you! This is my personal project and journey through life with you as a father. You have been my every effort from birth till death, and I am SO VERY thankful for you in every way.
I sat pondering many questions about family, the dynamic between parent and child, and how to connect with my children in a more meaningful way after my oldest child left our home to move out on his own. He would call me often to ask many questions about life, decisions and their consequences and what my thoughts were about different happenings in his life.
I wish I could have known ALL his life circumstances to be able to help him more. As a parent, offering advice where it is not requested can be those lectures that kids dread, so I always tried to make those conversations with each of my children about what they needed or wanted – so as to be able to help them with what they are ready for.
So I ended with the following questions on my mind…
- What is the most valuable gift I can give my children?
- What would help them find and be their best selves?
- How to give advice in a way that’d be there when really needed?
- How to connect my experience to their learning in a way that it is there when they are ready for it?
…and thus started Tubedad.
This page and content is my personal project for my children and family, but also my public project for all people (no age descrimination), that are need of a father who loves them, cares for their progress and who just wants to share in a better social engagement than what is currently online in this world today.
The world is massive and yet so accessible to everyone that it almost seems small conceptually, but it is magical to belong to a human family that is so large, so beautiful and filled with such purpose and meaning. The goal in this site is to promote and provide the advice and content here with one spiritual view in mind — which is LOVE.
Love is the meaning of it all, the substance of it all and the purpose of it all.
All inspired spirituality in the world has been based on important concepts that we aim to reinforce in our messages and approach to mankind – THE GOLDEN RULE – DO UNTO OTHERS, AS YOU WOULD HAVE THEM DO UNTO YOU.
SO the first and most fundamental basis upon which this site is predicated is to reaffirm that YOU ARE LOVED. You are a fundamental part to this family — and THE HUMAN FAMILY. I have learned more from you and your progress through life than I could have learned anywhere else. So, THANK YOU, again and again – Thank you for being a pivotal part of this world with me!
LOVE IS YOUR SOURCE
First and foremost, you are loved beyond anything that can be described.
Life will consist of twists and turns, surprises along with much of what you expected. You will grow through all phases of life, but you will find that your source remains the same – and that source is love. No other message can convey the importance you hold in the lives of your parents and family. Your source is pivotal to your existence here.
At times in life when you find it hardest or when you need to feel that love as you did when you were just a child, remember this again….
– That you are loved, immensely!
— Achieving your happiest and highest potential is desired
— View yourself with the same spirit of love, because that is your source!
Sometimes it is challenging to feel loved or to even love yourself. So much of today’s messaging is designed to make you question or compare yourself to something that is idolized but not real in the end. It is easy to lose that understanding, but remember that you are COMPLETELY loved.
“Love is where we come from, love is where we are going”
We need to know our world to change our world. To know the truth we first must find it.
– Tubedad
BE – YOUR – BEST – RESOURCE
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CENTS (SENSE)
If you are in need of advice, direction or guidance and do not know who to turn to, I understand. It is one of the biggest blessings to be able to help your child at their request.
These cents are meant to be bits of advice gathered through years of life that apply to happier living, more fulfillment in life and a greater purpose through it all as well.
It takes Cents to make Sense in this world. As you listen to and begin to implement these bits of advice into your life, you will find that life makes greater sense, and is more meaningful.
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Make sense to others. Share these messages with anyone else you know to be going through a hard time. Life is NOT easy, and it takes a lot to really understand how to manage to find meaning in anything that we spend our time on in this day and age.
Let other’s life lessons help you to go through life differently, with just as much learning, but less pain. You do not need to live with the pain of mistakes if others are helping you to understand them, and help in your decisions as you make them. Share these messages with those that you know are facing challenges.
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