1. NEED LOVE…? GIVE LOVE…!

This is the first of many messages and videos to come from TubeDad, and the most important message that I would want to start with my children, and is the most fundamental to a father’s desire for his children and key to every other experience in life. It is his desire for his children to feel loved and learn independence.

We want all our children to feel loved and find love that is real and long-lasting. We want our children to experience love that overcomes all, that bears all and that gives all.

— This is the first of many cents (sense) – and the most valuable of all messages. [LOVE IS NOT SELFISH] – it is unselfish. If we sit around waiting for love to come – it will not come in ways that build lasting joy and happiness, but instead will be a quickly filled expectation that we wait for from others. As quick to flee as it was to arrive. No lasting affect that will be with us as a part of us, but just a small expectation received ever so quickly.

— If you need love, give love! Love starts with giving. In the act of giving love, caring enough to act in another’s behalf, having the eyes to see beyond ourselves – to those in need……grabbing someone’s hand and lifting them to a higher level is the most incredible step towards feeling love, and it is lasting love because it was generated by you, and extended out from you, so you were its source.

—– There is a quote — ” to give is better than to receive ” – and this is the reason. When you are the source for love, you have managed to lift the world to that very extent.

—– There is a quote from the Bible that states – speaking of God – “We love him, because he first loved us.” — Love started with God who gave it to each of us – regardless of race, age, religion, position, gender or any other identifying feature —- all spiritual teachings confirm the same, that a benevolent creator gave us life, purpose and a love in that purpose.

Take a leap of faith and give love to those in need, and be the source of that love. It will last all throughout your life and will return to you again and again. The love and blessings you give will come back to bless you later as well, because you are its source. I want this for you more than anything else I could hope for. I love you and pray for your joy and happiness always.